romance...

"this generation has lost the true meaning of romance. there are so many songs that disrespect women. you cant treat the woman you love as a piece of meat. you should treat your love like a princess. give her love songs, something with real meaning. maybe im old fashioned, but to respect the woman you love should be a priority."
-tom hiddleston

points to be made:

1. sex is easy, try love.
2. dont cheat. not happy? found someone else? before you actually cheat. 
3. dont lie. its better to be hurt with the truth than comforted with a lie.
4. a little jealousy is healthy in a relationship. you should be honored that your spouse gets jealous. (not hella jealous, just a bit.). thats how you know that they get jealous because they are afraid to lose you. its comforting, kinda.
5. dont get mad when they get jealous over one of your friends. no matter how many times you have to reassure them that nothing is going on between you two. girls over-think too much. you two started off as being friends and grew into the relationship yall have now. they are scared because its happened before. with you and your spouse.
6. std's. i dont need to elaborate that one. and if you dont get it, you suck at life.
7.listen to them. be their best friend and lover at the same time.
8. protect them. let them be safe around you. they know if anything bad were to happen, youd be right there.
9. no abuse of any kind. ever.
10.use protection. dont fall in the same category as all the kids have kids now. dont be a part of that. 
11. show your girl off. but then dont treat her like a trophy.