chess...

yes, it is hurtful what happened.
but here is the thing, 
your narcissist doesn't feel they
have lost one thing.
they were never attached to you.
they aren't even processing this
in the way a normal person 
grieves a relationship.
by making these statements 
you are only giving them 
narcissistic supply.
they aren't taking it to heart.
they aren't going to wake up 
one day and think,
"wow, i lost such a good person!
what was i thinking?"
this will never happen.
you are putting yourself at their mercy
when you go to this place.
they don't care you're gone.
they didn't care that they had you.
all they are thinking about is
themselves and their cold,
calculated plans to dominate the world.
seriously. 
they are playing chess
and you were merely a pawn.